Where is says Flag this Message you click on that and then fill in the form giving a brief reason why it concerns you. We have all had a few of these in the recent past.

Just click on the "Flag this message" icon Sheilar.

Thanks for your prompt reply. S

I've had the same, or similar PM ... as has another member Rose ... the more members who flag it to admin. the quicker it will be removed. : o )

ha ha ive had a proposal off unknown person ,quite flattering but i dont fancy a thai bride lol

In my experience, you're in the minority of males there, Tanjipete, lol! Why haven't I had one of these then...

Thanks everyone for your support. I've passed it on to the relevant folks. Regards Sheila.

bamboo ,i deleted the message but if she comes on again i will be sure to send your regards ha ha ,who loves ya baby lol

I've been left out again!!!!!!!

Not me, I have also been propositioned. Unfortunately Moongrower would not let me follow it up so I have flagged it :-)

LOL, you two have made me smile ! ... : o )))))

Behave dearest...

:))))))))

Not that I need a Thai bride, but it would be nice to be included!

Meanie, your a He, I thought you were a She!!! Sorry :)

Deffo a "he" which after some of the things that I saw when I was backpacking around Thailand (and the Far East), can all too often be said of Thai "brides" too!!!

'Ladyboys' come to mind, Meanie . . . . .

I've been left out this time too, Meanie. Not that I'm in the market for any kind of bride either....

I had a proposal today on here. Flattering but almost certainly a "Thai bride" thing

Hah! My proposition came from a "lady" in Senegal! I sent a polite refusal, but decided to wait before flagging. I didn't have to worry--her icon, her message, and my refusal all vanished from GoY together! Just as well. I ain't that easy, and I bet that she ain't that cheap!

Meanie is a man? Isn't it odd how we assign a gender to certain names, I always thought you were female. But then people always thought I was male, and I'm not... although certainly some people I know would argue that I think just like a man, lol!

Don't suppose that you would get confused bt Bulbaholic & Moongrower?

Not seeing as you've kindly given us a couple of portraits to look at. I suppose you could have swopped them over.... :-?

Oh, Beatie, do you think we are so sneaky :-) :-)

Crikes - I've had a sex change and not noticed!
You're so right about our perceptions though Bamboo, and I too had you down as male for no logical reason when you think about it.......
These spam type messages can be a bit of a pain (if you're included), but it has on this occasion led of on an amusing tangent, and made me resolve to go up to the attic and dig out the photos of my travels.