Would it be too much?
By tiger1234
15 comments
I would love to hear some of your thoughts and advice about my dilemma.
In the middle of last year my neighbour’s husband passed away and although sad for her, it was nice to learn recently that she will, despite being in her 70’s be staying as our neighbour and won’t be packed off into some awful home, leaving us with the prospect of unknown new neighbours!
Her garden is very similar to ours in size and was always looked after by her late husband. Just this morning she approached me about looking after it for her. To cut a long story short, she has had a local authority-backed gardening company looking after it since her husband passed away. Well, you can imagine what she gets for her money!!
What i was wondering was, would i regret taking on another garden despite her offering to pay me the same hourly rate? Will i be taking on more than i can chew?
I am now semi-retired, so time would not be an issue. She is a lovely lady and i would hate to see her ripped off with her garden any longer. What do my GOY friends think? Regards, Tiger.
- 27 Feb, 2011
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Hi Tiger. only you knows if it will be too much, have a good think about it, and talk it over with your OH.and after that if you feel fit enough i would say give it a go. i'm sure it would put your neighbours mind at rest if you gave it a try. Good luck. :o)
27 Feb, 2011
i cant think that it would do anything but good ~ you helping the neighbour, she gets a better deal; so long as its not one of those highly demanding type of gardens you will both gain. you could always change some bits to make it easier ~ im sure your neighbour wouldnt mind.
hope it works out well.
27 Feb, 2011
Thanks for the input everyone. I knew that the good people here would talk common sense!
The garden in question is quite low maintenance, being mainly lawn and shrubs. My neighbour did say she would look after her baskets and pots herself. It's more of the labour intensive work that i would be required to do. She still has all the tools so i wouldn't even have to use my own. Perhaps i could agree with her to do it every so often, rather than as regular as my own. The money is not important but she insists on paying me, maybe this will be a way of enabling us to come to an agreement on time spent, as you all know how long we like to spend in our gardens LOL!
27 Feb, 2011
im sure some kind of a compromise could be worked out ~ enjoy the garden!!
27 Feb, 2011
Just seen this and I would say 'Go for it!' ... a friend of my Mums is in the same boat so to speak ... she allows a chap to use her late husbands greenhouse in return for maintaining her lawn and borders. No set times ... as and when required. I think older folk wish to keep their gardens neat & tidy ... but are often unable to do the bending & stretching involved! Your neighbour obviously considers you to be a reliable & trustworthy gardener. Think of the plants you could exchange and/or take cuttings of! : o )
27 Feb, 2011
Wise words Shirley, I hadn't thought about it in that way! I suppose we will both benefit in our own way. We have built up quite a trust, as she has now had a spare set of keys cut for us just in case anything should happen to her. Her family were pleased that she has someone they could trust as they are not always available. She doesn't have a greenhouse but does have a large empty garage! Who knows? LOL
27 Feb, 2011
I cut the grass for an elderly lady down the village. She has uite a lot of grass but it is no big deal. I would look after the garden if it were my descision.
27 Feb, 2011
Well i think with all the comments and the backing of the wife, i will go ahead and see how it goes. I may supply some photos later in the year and let you all know how i get on, thanks to everyone.
27 Feb, 2011
I'd jump at the chance especially if I could have the experience of growing her plants and I'd think of it as an extension of my garden :o)
27 Feb, 2011
My parents have a lovely man who comes when needed my mum just rings him up and asks him to come to cut the grass. I think if you feel you can do it then go for it, it'll be nice for your neighbour to have you in the garden too bit of company? do let us know how you get on, nice to have good neighbours :o)
27 Feb, 2011
If you feel you can do it then go ahead - if it gets too mcuh you could also keep a lookout for someone who could do it instead. Perhaps an ad on your local shop/supermarket's notice board ?
28 Feb, 2011
Yes i think if it did become too much Mariek, i would follow your advice. It would always be better to find a recommended gardener and to see some of their work first.
28 Feb, 2011
stupidly i had forgotten, my mum has someone to mow the lawn for her; [she lives two and a half hours away from me] which enables her to keep the garden she loves, keeps the value in the house and works very well for her. he just cuts the lawns and then we do any heavy digging that she cant manage ~ she is 81.
1 Mar, 2011
Yes Sticki, our neighbour although not as keen a gardener as i am, would hate to see her garden go to ruin. I somehow think that it would also in time, mean she would ask me to do other little odd jobs around the house, because she too is very house proud. As long as any other work was minor in nature, i think i will agree to help her.
1 Mar, 2011
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Personally, I think I would give it a go. You would probably enjoy it, and if it did get too much then you would have to tell her, or try and find someone else who wouldnt rip her off.
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