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The kindness of people.

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Well, this weekend was the 1st of the big event in my daughter’s life for this year. She moved into her 1st home. They completed a couple of weeks ago but the property had been being rented for a couple of years so was looking very tired that they decided to do a bit of painting and tidying up 1st before moving in.

As we have our own business and do work for shops and people all over the UK we get a fair amount of deliveries through Parcel Force. We have a lovely delivery man called Mike. We alway have a natter and if he has time, we give him a cup of tea. When Mike heard that Laura was moving, he told her not to bother hiring a van. Instead he would come over with his and help her move. (He uses his own van for his deliveries ). He turned up on Saturday morning, helped with all the heavy lifting and then helped get everything in place the other end. His kindness was overwhelming.

It also looks like she has fallen on her feet with the neighbours. One side, when they saw them there painting turned up with her spare kettle, mugs, bottle of milk and sugar. She forgot teaspoons so posted them through the letter box lol. She said she figured that their tea making equipment was at their other house, which it was and would need tea to help with all the painting ?. The other side bought over a bottle of bubbly and card on Saturday to welcome them to the neighbourhood and an offer of help if they needed it. She has also had 3 more cards from different neighbours again welcoming them.

Sorry, I know this is not a gardening blog but instead of my complaining about my neighbours I wanted to say that in so many ways, I think us all moving to this area, we have fallen on our feet and met some really kind people. ?

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that is so lovely Jen. We had similar when we moved here. So when our neighbours left we did the same for the new people. And whilst we speak occasionally but wave over the fence often we never have problems from them and he and my oh have a hedge cutting regime.

When our daughter moved from Somerset back up here her neighbours came out to wish her well and had hoped her boyfriend [now ex!] was leaving and not her.

I do think neighbourliness is back on the increase.

14 May, 2018

 

I think you are right Seaburngirl. If I'm honest, I was a little worried how people would treat them as they are a gay couple. While Laura was growing up, she was bullied at school and my ex in laws haven't spoken to her in 16 yrs because she is gay. I know things have changed greatly but I was worried.

It is so nice to have good neighbours and you hope that if you treat them how you would or have been treated like you did then it continues. Sounds like your daughter had nice neighbours and were sorry to see her move.

14 May, 2018

 

It restores your faith in human beings, doesn't it?

14 May, 2018

 

It's lovely having good neighbours. When a neighbour moved out before Christmas we wondered whether we would be fortunate again. We were !

As Lisam said, it certainly does restore your faith in human beings!

14 May, 2018

 

That is absolutely wonderful..restores your faith in people.

14 May, 2018

 

I hope they both settle in to their new home and are happy there lovely to here she was offered help from your delivery man Mike and has kind new neighbours . Sad though your ex in laws have nt spoken to her for so long because of her being gay perhaps they should of got a violent criminal or a martyr that killed masses in a war torn country instead they would have cause then not to talk it amazes me how violence is more accepted with some than a couple who loves each other and causes no harm to others sad twisted world we live in Jen...

14 May, 2018

 

That's marvellous news Jen - what a wonderful welcome!
Nobody took the least bit of notice when we moved in here.
I hope your daughter and partner will soon feel settled and be very happy in their new house.

14 May, 2018

 

Thank you all. As you all say, it really does restores your faith in the kindness of people.

Stera, we didn't get any acknowledgement when we moved in here ?. To the side of us is a shop with a car park at the front of it. The day we moved, the journey took 7 hrs. Arrived at 10 pm. The removal men parked on the shops car park over night so the next day we took over a bottle of wine and chocolates to apologise and introduce ourselves. When last year we put a new fence up, the shop let our builders use their car park again so we paid for a gate to be put up from our fence to their building as a thank you since they had said that was going to be their plan one day. We get on well with them and never had any problems. I won't mention the neighbours behind us lol.

Dawn, Mike is lovely. He has always been so friendly. He even has started to carry dog biscuits for my 2 boys to fed them every time he comes lol.

It is a shame about Laura's grandparents and I have never understood it but I have always told Laura that it is their loss as she is a lovely person and some one that they should be proud of as I am of her.

15 May, 2018

 

Awe that is kind of him to give your dogs a treat. Yes defiently her grand parents loss I think it the era they were bought up in where it was looked down upon but life is nt like that any more you can't help what you are born with as its been medically proved their brain is different to the rest of us.

15 May, 2018

 

Will PM you Dawn ?

15 May, 2018

 

Best wishes from me Jen, and I hope they will be very happy in their new home

15 May, 2018

 

Ok Jen.

15 May, 2018

 

Thank you Callie, I will pass it on to them. ?

15 May, 2018

 

It's so important to have good neighbours. I'm glad your daughter has them.

16 May, 2018

 

Thank you Hywel. It makes so much difference having good neighbours.

17 May, 2018

 

Thank you for sharing with us this cheering blog. I'm glad that you have good neighbours, & also Laura & partner, as Hywel says , it is so important. There are some very kind, caring people in the world. I have a tale to tell also ( in the near future), watch for it!

17 May, 2018

 

Feverfew, talk about cliff-hanger lol. Will be watching out for it ?.the people that own the shop are nice but unfortunately the couple who live behind us aren't. We have had a lot of problems with them. Long and short of it, they pretent they live in middle of nowhere with no neighbours and act accordingly. We are hoping that since they are a young family, that they will sell up and we will get someone nice.

17 May, 2018

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