Sad and heartbreaking.
By lincslass
26 comments
Hard to write….I ‘m sitting next to Derek’s bed in hospital , its 1.55am palliative care room, my son and daughters are with me,have been all the time trying to snooze but really only pretending, Derek was brought in on Tuesday, too weak for operation that might not work anyway..
.We agreed, no machines, no resuscitation..
..Bless him !!!! …..
He’s placed himself top of the list, his own Arountuit List, ( longstanding joke in our family and he has his own little placque) he’ll go when he’s ready and not before ….
…
Derek passed away at 5am…..
5 May, 2023
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Thinking of you Lincs - be kind to yourself.
5 May, 2023
I just thought I would look in on goy and saw this and am so so sorry!
I am thinking about you! Be strong! xx
5 May, 2023
Sue, such a very sad time for and your family. He will take comfort knowing he is surrounded by family. x
5 May, 2023
Sue, I'm so very sorry to hear Derek is so poorly. I'm thinking of you both, and of your family too. You've a strength there I see, to support everyone and Derek..please look after yourself too.
Sending love to you, my very best,
Kate xxx
5 May, 2023
It is hard to find the words to express my thoughts for what you are all going through. You have my love and support at this difficult time. love Eileenxx
5 May, 2023
I was taken aback to read what you are going through. I send you my love and feel so very sad that you and your family are experiencing this terrible situation.
5 May, 2023
My thouhts are with you at this difficult time for you and your family. Stay strong, love to you. Sue x
5 May, 2023
“Bashed But Not Broken” ....that was the title that you gave one of your previous blogs done long ago. I know that with the support of your family and your GOY friends, myself included, that title is appropriate here too. All my love to you and your family. Mike
6 May, 2023
Sue, I'm so very sorry to hear of Derek's passing. My heart goes out you and your family at this time.
My thoughts are with you all.
I send my love,
Kate x
7 May, 2023
Sue, I send you my heartfelt condolences at this sad time. x
7 May, 2023
Thinking of you all, so sorry to hear this.
7 May, 2023
Just dreadful for you Sue, I’m so very sorry.
7 May, 2023
So sorry to hear about your loss… thinking of you & your family at this difficult time.
7 May, 2023
Hugs and heartfelt condolences to you and the family. I am so sorry to hear this sad news.
7 May, 2023
May God bless you all and take Derek home.
7 May, 2023
Sorry to hear your sad news. He is at peace now & still with you for the moment.
8 May, 2023
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved Derek, Sue.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I have sent you a p.m. when you feel up to reading it.
Sending lots of love to you. xxx
8 May, 2023
Oh Sue,I'm so very sorry to hear about Derek,as we only got back home yesterday, and it's such a shock to read this today..
My thoughts are with you and your Family,lots of love..xxx.
8 May, 2023
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Derek, he is at peace now and his suffering has stopped. My thoughts are with you and your family. Take care. xxx
8 May, 2023
Sorry to hear your sad news Sue, my deepest sympathy to you and your family x
10 May, 2023
I am so very sorry to read this. Sending my sincere sympathy to you and your family.
10 May, 2023
My sympathy to you and all your family
Love Marjorie
19 May, 2023
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My thoughts are with you, Lincs. I am so sorry to hear this.
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